Christmas 2014

Happy Holidays,

From The Wehles!

Just a few highlights over our busy year.

This year Matt and I had a crazy ride with all that happened to us, to think that just a few months ago we were in Arkansas wondering when we were going to move back to Virginia is crazy to me. So let's start from the beginning, earlier on this year we were in Arkansas slowly establishing ourselves in that state. I had gotten a job at a local bank and actually loved it. I loved being a bank teller and learning the in's and out's of the process. It was so much fun to be apart of that, and I had such great co-workers to boot! I loved working there and my managers were awesome, and were all so kind they even had goodbye cupcakes for me on my last day of work.

Another thing that I am sure most of you know is the fact we had a little addition to our family. Our kitten Yuri, who has been such a great added part to our family. He is very lovable, follows us form room to room and he needs to know where we are at all times. He is very involved in all that we do and listens very well, he is a great and added bonus to our family and we love him so much. It's our first Christmas with him and surprisingly enough he hasn't touched a single ornament. He is now 10 months old and will be ONE on Matt's birthday this year! 

Matt has been busy with his job this year as well, from training in Arkansas to being asked to come on board with the Public Sector for HP has turned our lives upside down. He was asked to take the position around the end of June, and was told we had until the beginning of August to move to Virginia. Luckily for us Momma Wendi has those connections with being a realtor to help us find our new home in Virginia. We were so grateful for the help especially since we bugged her enough to go see houses and to figure out which one's we liked. The process was so much easier with her helping us and with our family supporting us and for that we are grateful.

This is our humble little home, it looks a little different now with the cold weather and the improvements on the gutters and the steps I am putting in outside but it basically looks the same. I have done a little decorating here and there in our little house but nothing too much, we have to save back up from buying the house in the first place! We have 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms, with an upgraded kitchen and a finished basement. Matt uses the basement more than I do for his office, and his small studio for recording music as well. Since being homeowners for a little while now, we have discovered it is true that there are always projects. We have also learned a lot when it comes to water heaters, pressure tanks, garbage disposals, and more!

All in all we have been so happy to be back in Virginia, we have missed being closer to our families and living in this great state. We now live only 30 minutes north of where we grew up and are now part of northern Virginia and closer to DC. Matt loves his new job with HP and working as their technical consult on the software side, and I have my part time job to keep me busy as well and it has been great. But the things that has us kept us the busiest is being around family again, we are invited to all the things we couldn't go before or be apart of. So now we are going to little parties, or just get togethers and now we party all the time!

Being here for Halloween 

Going to lots of Capitals Games

Having Sleepovers with Cousins, while Yuri inspects the new visitors

Going on random trips with family to the National Harbor

Being here when family comes in from Utah to visit

Getting our first live tree from Home Depot

We were also asked to be apart of the Christmas Party Committee

I have to say it looked awesome [and it was a lot of work]

This has been our year in 2014, I can't wait to see what happens in 2015. It has been a great year full of moving, starting new jobs while getting and buying a house.  We hope you all have a great holiday season and we are so excited for Christmas this year!

Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year from the Wehles!

Moving, Again.

I really just wanted to write my thoughts down on recent events that have happened in our lives. I am sure people who have kind of kept in touch with us, or just see my posts about moving are just as surprised as we are. They probably think, 'moving again? can't they stay in one place?' Believe me, I feel the same way. Moving 7 times in less then 2 years is exhausting, the only good that has come from it are two things.

1. We get to move to all sorts of places, and experience just a taste of it. Get to know the locations we are in and to really soak in the place we have moved to. We try and explore the new area we have moved into, so we can at least say 'It was a nice visit, and now we have seen the area so I don't feel too upset about moving away.' Not only that it gives me a chance to throw away anything we don't need. I am not a hoarder, and if any of you know my father I am pretty sure I got that from him.

2. We also get to be blessed with all the kinds of people around us. People we have just meet, or just people in the ward always seem to pop up and come to our aid when I least expect it. I can't even begin to tell you the countless stories of moving trips where things have happened, and it just warms my heart and makes me eternally grateful.

Also whenever we move, for some reason I become anxious to the point of not eating. [No this is not a cry for help, or saying oh no Kristyna isn't eating!] I just have so many emotions, and things running through my head that I don't even think about eating. I got plenty of other things to occupy my mind then eating, I need to plan out what we pack, what is going to goodwill, how we will get it there. Are we getting a truck this time? Or are we just throwing everything out? What is my time limit? Can I do it by myself?
 

Just a few example of what is running through my mind during the times of our moves. Although I have to say this move, will be our last for a while. [cross your fingers] Here is the full story for those who don't know.

My husband has been gone most of this month on business trips to Vegas, Nashville, and now Texas. On one of these trips he was approached by his potential future boss. Matt probably thought they just wanted to chat, and catch up and see how his training was going. However they offered him a job starting July 1st. Shocked and excited, we were surprised by how quickly they wanted him. For you see the deal was that Matt was going to start his new position a year from now. Not..in a few weeks! The news was delivered to me when he got back and I started going into planning mode. Matt told me however that he would be starting later then July 1st so we had little more time. I was thankful for that, but I was sad that I had to quit my job that I have really enjoyed doing. Hopefully I can get one like it in Virginia!

Now all the 7 times that we have moved have not exactly prepared me for this. This time our move is a bit bigger, because Matt and I thought we were going to be in Arkansas for 1-1.5 years. So we had gone home and grabbed all of our wedding presents we never opened, all the furniture we had yet to use. [because up until this point I had bought goodwill furniture every time] So now Matt and I are planning this big move, and I am excited but nervous at the same time.

We also had something we never had before, a little kitten. I know it probably doesn't seem like a big deal to people who have pets, and take them places. But to me I have never had a kitten before, and I want this move to be easy on him. So we made the decision almost a week ago that he should come with us home on the plane. It would probably be easier on him then being in a car with us for 16 hours, and to be at our house with my mom taking care of him. I am nervous about him flying but I am sure he will be just fine, and hopefully he won't even remember this ever happened because he is so little!

All in all I am very grateful for everything that has happened with Matt and I these past two years of being married. We have learned a lot, and we have moved a lot and yet with each time I can't help but be more impressed with him and our love for each other. We make these decisions together, and work as a team to make all of this possible. For that I am truly grateful, and if I had to move cross country with anyone I am glad it is him.

So look out Virginia, here we come back! This time to stay for good [cross your fingers] because even though I have learned a lot from moving, I would really only like to do it one more time for the next 5-8 years. That would be to our new home..[ wish us luck in house hunting!]

Thank you to all our friends and family who have helped us with each move and have listened to our crazy stories of the unknown future. We are grateful for your help, and we miss all of you that we have left behind in our moves.

Fun date night ideas? I know I haven't posted much of it lately, this month has been crazy and so has the month before that. No worries I will post more date night ideas later. I really enjoy coming up with ideas and hopefully you can use some of my ideas for your date nights!

Until next time.

Christmas Break

Just a quick post with some pictures of our time at home. We went home to Virginia for Christmas and it was a lot of fun! Pretty much excitement, from the moment we finally touched down after a 3 hour delay. The first major thing we did was go to a Capitals hockey game! It was Matt's first hockey game and he loved it, he even bought a hat!

We spent a lot of time with the family and for some reason I mentally decided that I don't need to take pictures while I was at home. I tend to forget because I am having too much fun. How stupid of me. We had a great time on Christmas Eve at my house with the whole family over. We did our tradition with the SOCK [a big Christmas stocking we call the SOCK]. It's a tradition in our family that my grandma and grandpa Whitesides did for the kids when we were younger. This year my Aunt Cindy did it for us grandkids and we had a blast once again!

Our Christmas Stocking Sock looks something like that, but it is green and a lot bigger. We go around the room from youngest to oldest and reach in and pick out things from the stocking. We can't look in the stocking and we only have a few seconds to pull something out. These are just fun little gifts that could be anywhere from a rubix cube, to a recorder, and the special surprise we all try to get is the money hidden in there! We cheered everyone's names and it was such a blast!

Then my cousins from Virginia Beach came into town and we played card games all night, watched Sherlock and just goofed around. During this time one of my best friends [who I haven't seen in over a year] Court came up from Florida and we spent the whole night laughing while catching up.

It was so great to see her and we almost cried when we first saw each other. My dad wanted to be included in the pictures as you can see. He sure is a funny man :) I also got to see another person on my break, as a lot of you might have guessed my sister and best friend Alanna.

She always loves to tease me and tell me she never gets pictures with me. Which is true, like I said I always want to take pictures but I am so bad at it when I am on vacation. So she got me on New Years Eve when we celebrated together!

All in all it was a great trip and we loved spending time with the family, and thankfully we didn't get sick this time when we were home! We only got sick..right when we got back to Arkansas. Thank you to both of our families for spending time with us and spoiling us while we were home! It was a lot of fun!

Ps. On regarding the ABC dates, we didn't go on ones while we were on vacation. We did however go out on a date night before we left to go home the next day. It was an H date and we decided we go see The Hobbit and go out to eat at Hog's Place. [A little diner here in town.]

So see you soon DC. We love and miss you already but we are happy to be home. Matt is continuing his training here with HP and soon we shall be moving back to Virginia! This year will be filled with adventures! I can already tell because we have plenty of things to decide for the summer. Happy New Year everyone! I am sure 2014 will be a great year for all of us.

 

 

I also just wanted to show a little bit of our Christmas Eve fun. We are a really loud family, and it shows in these videos. It was a blast, and I have to say I love my family so much.